Enough is Enough, Bitches…
My comments on this post at The Jawareport about how terrible men are especially you dirty boys who comment at Ace’s blog. Yeah and Ace too… shame on you all for being such… such… men!
I am sick and fucking tired of women bitching about being objectified… really I am. GROW THE FUCK UP.
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wow, I really probably shouldn’t wade into this, but what the hell. Nobody reads me anymore anyway and it isn’t like I am going to cry if I suddenly become the root of all evil.
That said… Grow the hell up, ladies. I started scanning when a few of you started acting like 14 year old girls.
What is it you all want from men? Put down Naomi’s Beauty Myth, she is a hysterical bitch and you really do not want to be like her.
It is amazing to me some of you gals can start these really well thought out comments and then devolve into basically a temper tantrum about the way men talk about women.
If I didn’t know you were mostly conservative bloggers I would swear I had stumbled onto some god forsaken man hating leftist granola fest. Having read all of this the only thing that seems to separate your comments from the Granola Brigade is the greater likelihood you actually have shaved pits and legs (though I am sure not a Brazilian wax, that would be degrading).
Well I have to call bullshit when I see it, sorry.
Women seem to long for a nirvana where we are all judged on our intelligence and our wit alone, yeah right. Looks mean nothing, right ladies? We do not sit around with our friends and talk about things just as off color as the guys in Ace’s comments. I am sure you would all love your husbands just as much if they had bad teeth, smelled like pee, and needed to lose 100 pounds just as long as they respected you and lived up to their responsibilities. Right? Lie to somebody else, sweeties.
Women get a thrill by being objectified by men. They do not get a thrill from men objectifying someone else, especially someone they feel intellectually superior to and even more so if they feel she is prettier.
Someone mentioned women being vain under pressure from these horrible male imposed stereotypes. Most women do not have plastic surgery for their men. They do not get botox for their men. They do not work out obsessively for their men. They do it for other women. American women dress for each other. They have to look better than the other women in The Pack. If women truly dressed for men they would spend more money on their bras and panties than their slacks and blouses.
The whole feminist bs is tired. “Please don’t objectify me, I am a strong thinking woman.” Yeah, well you can all have those really sensitive and politically correct men. I prefer mine men with their balls between their legs, not in a jar.
This is why I work in the Tech sector and for the Military. I rarely have to work with more than one other woman. Get more than two or three together and it becomes something ugly.
I am smart, witty, have a career, have four daughters, and I have a full on Alpha male husband who loves to look at my ass and thinks I am the sexiest thing alive. Thank God he doesn’t think I am a high maintenance bitch with a chip on my shoulder who makes him prove constantly that he considers me his mental/physical/and sexual equal.
Women who get their panties all in a knot over this stuff fundamentally do not understand men. They are simple creatures. Keep them well fed, don’t nag them, and keep their balls empty. They will love you forever.
They may objectify Monica Belucci, but you know what, that has nothing to do with how they feel about their wives and girlfriends. They are visual creatures who do not understand our passive aggressive bullshit.
I am rambling here because it is late and I work for a living. I guess I just wanted to have a female POV in comments that isn’t frothing at the mouth about men being men. I wish I would have found this earlier when I was still coherent and not running on purely disgust.
/end screed
15 Responses so far
March 7th, 2008
12:58 am
/cheer
March 7th, 2008
9:12 am
They are visual creatures who do not understand our passive aggressive bullshit.
Well, at least I recognize it. Probably comes from living with wimmin.
But you’re right, I don’t understand it.
March 7th, 2008
9:17 am
Yes, my husband is getting there. He came into this marriage with an only child, a boy. Moved in with four women and I think he has done really well. He is getting better at understanding the drama. He is a trooper and tries not to drown in the estrogen. :)
March 7th, 2008
12:40 pm
I don’t quite understand what the women are complaining about here. First, aren’t the men commenting that, basically, they prefer their women with a little bit of meat on their bones rather than women who work out to the point where they’re built like orangutans? And yet, women are upset by this? I would think they would be relieved. (Personally, I feel kind of sorry for women like this. I see them at the gym all the time. It’s like they’re trying to fight age, yet somehow, this makes them look older, or at any rate, like they have 60 year old heads on 40 year old bodies. I think the reduced body fat leads to increased wrinkles, or something like that.)
Second, they’re criticizing women whose careers have been, to a large degree, built upon the idea that they are attractive. It’s one of the criteria for the profession they’ve chosen. Sarah Jessica Parker isn’t that good of an actress to make me think that she made it on talent alone, nor is Madonna that good of a singer/songwriter. So, commenting on the fact that they’ve lost some of what helped make them famous and successful in the first place doesn’t really seem out of bounds to me, no more than commenting that an athlete’s physical ability has declined with age. And, the men weren’t really talking about age, anyway, at least not specifically.
Also, the male comments over at Ace’s seemed pretty tame to me. I’m not sure about jawareport, but these women really seem to be overreacting.
March 7th, 2008
2:49 pm
Jason,
That is what made it totally laughable. I sent ace that link because as a man i wanted him to tell me if that was at anyway attractive. I mean i am not a guy so what do i know?
The uproar only proves that men are not allowed to comment on a woman’s appearance because it is never going to be taken as anything other than degrading. It is such bullshit.
The only reason i commented is because I sent him the damn link and it pissed me off. After reading my screed that dorothy twit over there actually said i was uptight and a priss. I honestly have no idea how she got that from my commentary.
I agree that the comments were pretty tame, but all it takes in one woman to get her knickers in a wad and they all swarm around empowered to words of the first nitwit to have a field day.
One of the gals manages to make a point without sounding like some sort of harpy from hell. It is foot stomping tantrum throwing at its finest.
I totally stand by my statement about women wanting to be objectified and only having a problem when it is directed at other women.
I can only take so much bullshit before I have to call attention to it.
March 7th, 2008
3:15 pm
“Women get a thrill by being objectified by men. They do not get a thrill from men objectifying someone else, especially someone they feel intellectually superior to and even more so if they feel she is prettier.”
Truth to power, sister.
Do I diet and work out to impress my husband or other men? Sorta, but it is more about “fitting in” with the other mommies – don’t want to be the fattest mommy in the room, even when I know that my IQ is probably higher than most of theirs. I don’t wear my IQ on my ass, afterall. I’m not obsessive about it (or I’d weigh 110 and spend tons on botox and lipo). Make no mistake, I am quite aware that every boy/man that has ever been attracted to me is first mesmerized by my rack. Only after I’ve attracted him with that do they get to know what “intellectual treasures” lie beyond.
Men are not intellectual creatures when it comes to women and sex. Why don’t more women understand that? Yeah, some are pigs, but most just can’t help it.
By the way, some of us still read you, Jen…
March 7th, 2008
3:32 pm
You nailed it Jen! I think women who complain about this sort of thing are in some ways insecure with themselves. Envy and jealousy are natural human emotions.
The world can’t be filled with Jessica Biels or Monica Bellucci’s, just like it can’t be populated with George Clooney’s and Clive Owen’s.
Be comfortable in your own skin and you’ll be fine.
March 7th, 2008
4:09 pm
Lots of different kinds of people at Ace’s. Even the guys I agree with manage to piss me off, and I guess they go around pissing each other off on purpose. It ain’t Yahtzee and Mai-Tais in there. But they do seem to appreciate the female commenters in the gang, often in more ways than one.
Major, big-time props on being willing to bitch at the bitches. “Sisterhood” has never been more “powerful” than it is right now, and it’s making fools of some otherwise sensible bloggers. They just can’t seem to get past it. You’re not going to make any new friends criticizing them, I can tell you. But it makes men of good will feel better about the future to see there’s at least one respectable woman who hasn’t fallen for it. Best of luck with that.
March 7th, 2008
4:10 pm
>> Moved in with four women and I think he has done really well.
Holy moly.
Well, to help a brother out, you can let him know I don’t mind running out of bread or milk, but I never run out of medicinal chocolate.
March 7th, 2008
5:00 pm
Just wow.
After reading all of those comments, I realize why I don’t have many women friends. I like to hang with women like myself – like you, Jen. Thus, I tend to socialize with my sister, my nieces and my best friend. That’s my primary circle. Sure, I have friends and acquaintances among other moms and such, but usually I just can’t stand the whining and victim-speak for long periods of time. My circle is pretty much a bunch of alpha females that knew that we had to find some even stronger alpha males or we would end up carrying balls in purses. We have each found our alpha man than enjoys an intellegent woman with a sense of humor while our gifts in the “boobage” area are not lost on them. Heh.
Having a man that thinks you are the “shit” is great. Having a man that thinks you are the “shit”, and beautiful is wonderful. Having a man that thinks you are the “shit”, beautiful and the smartest person he speaks to all day long is heaven.
Objectify me, dammit – then talk politics, literature and science to me. Yeah, that’s the way I like it.
Oh, and no comment on the Brazilian…
March 7th, 2008
5:24 pm
Mel,
I need to make it back to houston or you guys need to come this way! I had a great time!
For the record guys, she is a total MILF. Red headed bitch! ;) You are gorgeous, ya hag. BTW, we would have been hell on wheels single knowing what we know now, eh?
You, like me, grew up in a place where men are men and women are far and away much more of our mindset. At least when i was growing up there was my huge family of queen bitches and our cocky bastards. It wasn’t until I ventured out of SETex that I realized the world was populated by a bunch of cranky repressed women and the men whose balls they have in their purse.
Meh…
As to the brazilian… well i have commented ;)
March 7th, 2008
7:37 pm
Aren’t you the sweetie. blushes
I’ve dated narcissistic turds and guys who thought they were “playahs” and even a couple of “too nice” guys that I just plowed over. Finding a real man that wouldn’t put up with any shit from me while also allowing me to call him on his own shit was shocking. I would only carry his balls in my purse if it, you know, gave him a little thrill…
Actually, we were just in S.A. in Feb. for our 17th anniversary. We stayed at La Cantera – beautiful – and (on your recommendation) tried Kirby’s which was fantastic. The Pommegranate Martini was killer and the food and service was worth every penny. It was a quick overnighter just to get away alone and reconnect. Maybe next time we’ll be there longer and grab lunch or dinner with you guys.
March 7th, 2008
7:56 pm
Kirby’s is THE SHIT. I love really great food and i do not mind paying for it. What did you eat? The lady bird johnson oyster appetizer was fucking amazing.
March 7th, 2008
10:02 pm
We had the king crab legs which were unfuckingbelievable – better than most lobster I’ve had. I had sea bass with the lobster risotto and Mark had one of the steaks and mushrooms (I think) and then we had some orgasmic chocolate cake that we couldn’t even finish. Thank heavens we had a fridge in the room, because I took home a ton of food. Since it’s Lent, I wish I’d had those crab legs tonight. Mmmm. Now I’m hungry.
There’s a Kirby’s in Houston, but it is in The Woodlands which might as well be San Antonio – if we went there for dinner we’d have to spend the night because it is over an hour away. Too bad. We have our favorites around here, the Galleria and downtown, but from one far off suburb to another on the other end of town is too far.
I’m surfing because the “man” is playing poker. I need to go to bed, because it’s opening day for baseball tomorrow – gotta be the baseball mom. Early. In the cold. Bleh. I love my kids…
March 14th, 2008
2:16 pm
Hey Jen!
Just wanted to drop a quick note and let you know that you do have a few loyal readers out here. I just found your site a few weeks ago – might have even been a link from Ace’s place, but I love it! I find you opinions to be refreshingly dead on and realistic. Rare qualities, even for a conservative. I myself work at a LARGE base here in Georgia, for the DOIM. Do you find your work rewarding as well? It is a humbling thought to think of all the soldiers that we support, indirectly, and how much good we are helping them accomplish.
KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!!
Jethro
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