I read the article Jen linked to below with great interest, but it wasn’t anything I didn’t know already. Men and women really want the same thing when it comes right down to it. We want a responsible spouse who is able to hold a steady job, be a good parent, not be an a-hole to us and not cheat on us. We want them to be “nice” in public and then be a dirty rotten whore in the bedroom. This goes for both sexes. My wife loves me because I’m all of the nice things I stated above (and I do scrapbooking with her, but I digress…) and yet I understand her “needs” in the bedroom. That article was spot on.