There is this disgusting trend in America these days, not just in the workforce, education, and politics, but in parenting as well. The celebration of mediocrity.

The bosses who walk around stroking the egos of their employees and constantly telling them how great a job their doing, when in fact they are just doing what they are paid to do.

Teachers and schools rewarding students with parties because everyone did their homework for an entire month!

Adjusting perfect attendance policies to “missing X number of days or less per year” is not perfect attendance.

Politicians bragging about all the bills they pushed to the floor and legislation they sponsored. Making a big deal over the hours they worked to get a particular issue addressed. Is that not their job? (more…)

While hitting my Google Feeds this morning I hit BMEWS to see what Drew was talking about this morning and found this entry. I have been pondering how to address this whole issue without sounding like a hysteric with too much coffee in her system so I decided after reading his entry that I need to just do it. So here it goes…

Barry O’s speech accomplished a few things this week and his comments since have brought to light a few more attitudes he seems to harbor. Whether he was addressing race to cover his ass about Jerry “Goddamn America” Wright, which is what any thinking person in this country believes, or if he was just moving up the date on a speech he had planned to deliver about race in this country, one thing is certain… he succeeded in stirring up a racial shit storm.

Yes, his approval ratings have suffered as a result of the eloquent but shameless rationalizing of his relationship with Rev. Wright. That said, Obama did manage to take the attention away from his startling ineptitude when it comes to the war in Iraq and national security in general. Is it a good trade off? Time will tell, but for the moment the country is talking about race.

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Seems the following photo qualifies as racism now.

You know, when I saw this picture I was not thinking King Kong.  In fact I doubt anyone but an overly PC asshat would think racism without the seed being planted in their minds.  But low and behold it is in fact another example of the White Establishment’s perpetuating of vile and disgusting racism.

Wait for it….

SHUT THE FUCK UP! (more…)

1.) Via : The Corner

Condi Rice, for example, has childhood memories of a segregated south and racial violence. But that’s what makes Obama’s association with Wright so significant. He’s not from Alabama. He’s a biracial middle-class Kenyan-Kansan Hawaiian-born Indonesian-raised Columbia and Harvard graduate who chose to immerse himself in the most corrosive and paranoid end of a racial-grievance ghetto mentality that is nothing to do with him, his family or his upbringing. He doesn’t have the same excuse as a Jackson, Sharpton or Farrakhan.

I am with Steyn on this one when he asks why the Obamas would choose to expose their children to this sort of anti-American crap. If the goal of Mr. Obama is to unite this country and change the “tone” of our discourse, why immerse your children in such divisive and hateful environments? Because you are an American hating elitist liberal, that’s why.

2.) Has anyone else noticed that Jeri is whiter than Barry O?

Seriously, Jeri is damn near the same color as me! In my life I have found the black folks I work with hyper aware of the color differences within their own community. Comments like, “She is pretty, but did you see how black her man is?” or “He is fine, but he is so black.” At least they seem to have gotten over that issue. Beige is the new black? (more…)

While I am female perfection, even I will admit there are a handful of days a month you really should tread lightly. The best of women have some mood issues. The following ten simple tips could save you much pain, many unnecessary fights, and perhaps even your life.

1. Understand you are wrong. It is a simple thing.


2. Be particularly aware of your tone of voice. If you are not capable of keeping it kind, loving, and benign, do not speak. Five days of silence can be a good thing.


3. Do not ever say “The house is a wreck.” Even if you do not mean for her to get up and clean it she is going to take it as a personal attack. Just clean it or let it go.


4. Do not take your shower before she has a chance to take her bath. Nothing will set off a berserker blood lust like a fucking luke warm bath because you had to have a hot shower first.


5. Do not eat the last cookie, piece of chocolate, or drink the last can of Coke Zero. Only woe lies there and you really do not need it nearly as badly as she does.


6. If she wants to watch BravoTV all day, that is ok. Even if it is the twenty-fifth rerun of Season 4 Project Runway. She fucking likes the fashion, leave her the hell alone. Have you no soul?


7. This is an excellent time to be the greatest Dad in the world. Take the kids to see a movie in the morning. This will totally be appreciated and when the time comes you will sooooo get laid for doing this.


8. When she says, “I love Rocky Road Ice Cream” it is code for; “If you fucking loved me at any point in our life together you would get up and go buy me some.” Suggesting she eat the ice cream you actually have in the freezer is not going to do anything but prove you are no longer deeply in love with her. She simply wants what isn’t in the freezer. If you had Rocky Road she would want Tin Roof or Caramel Turtle Fudge.


9. It is perfectly acceptable and understandable when every fourth sentence out of her mouth is, “God, my tits hurt.” They do, you insensitive bastards.


10. Finally, giggling as she constantly drops stuff, loses stuff, or huffs around talking to herself is not going to make anything better. While it might seem amusing to you and amusing to her any other time of the month, at that moment you might as well be waving a red cape at her and taunting her with a reese’s peanut butter egg. It aint cute.

So there you have it, Demure Thoughts PSA #1; read it, learn it, live it.

Oh Fuck! I demand immediate action too! My suggestion? A big giant fuck you to the UN and the ACLU.

UN Denounces US Record on Racial and Ethnic Discrimination!

GENEVA — A United Nations committee today issued a strongly worded critique of the United States’ record on racial discrimination and urged the government to make sweeping reforms to policies affecting racial and ethnic minorities, women, and immigrants in this country.

“The message from the U.N. Committee on the Elimination of Racial Discrimination is clear when it comes to the U.S.’ record on human rights and racial equality — the government can’t just talk the talk, it must also walk the walk,” said Jamil Dakwar, Advocacy Director of the ACLU Human Rights Program. “To claim the high moral ground and assert leadership on the issue of human rights, the U.S government must address the systemic discrimination and injustice that exists in its own backyard.”

My first thought? FUCK YOU.

Systemic discrimination and injustice? WTF? The only folks truly discriminated against in this country these days are white males. Poor S.O.B.s have to actually work for shit and get to see their tax dollars hard at work allowing lazy assholes to do nothing at all. Ugh, you will have to bear with me here, I am hormonal.

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The first question I have for the folks who hire out the actually parenting part of parenting is, “Why the fuck didn’t you just get a dog? Why bring a child into this world you had no intention of adjusting your life to raise?”

Shit like this article illustrate perfectly what is wrong with the world today. You and I will get to experience the product of a generation of kids who learn from their parents to just hire out the difficult yet extraordinary things life has to offer for the sake of convenience.

A Coach at the Crib And a Consultant at the Potty

Maria Zimmitti didn’t set out to become, in her words, the potty lady.

Now eager parents line up to pay her $250 for a consultation, with topics like quelling a toilet rebellion and pointers on how to avoid one.

“Sometimes a parent will say, ‘How about I pay you $5,000 and you potty train for me?’ ” Zimmitti said. “They’re halfway joking.”

Zimmitti is part of a niche service sector that has appeal among busy, anxious and often well-heeled parents in the region who want help with some of the most important and intimate child-rearing duties.

For them, paying a personal shopper $30 to spend an afternoon tracking down a coveted tutu for a 2-year-old is money well spent. For other parents, the baby-services sector is a lifeline that can rescue them from sleepless nights or protect their children from getting hurt at home.

I am all for seeking help on how to do things yourself. I have a few books I acquired when I was a new mother and things seemed a bit daunting. I relied on my mother for a great deal of advise and she willingly gave it. There is however a point where you stop parenting and start outsourcing the rearing of your children. For example: If you are having trouble breastfeeding then a lactation consultant can save you much heartache and stress. That said, hiring a wet nurse is a bit freakin’ much.

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1. The Other Boleyn Girl which according to the commercials, “Everyone is talking about!” Yeah, right. Scarlett and Natalie… yawn.
2. Lost: watched season one and that was more than enough.
3. Gay Marriage: Legal, not legal whatever. I have opinions, but nothing I would fight over.
4. Tight Assed Conservative Women: Grow the fuck up. You are just as annoying as those feminazi bitches on the Left, the only difference is you shave your pits.
5. What said women think of me.
6. Canada
7. The feelings of idiots
8. My bra and panties matching.
9. Any woman who came before me in my man’s life… lesser women all. What the hell do I need to know beyond that?
10. Big Brother on TV

My comments on this post at The Jawareport about how terrible men are especially you dirty boys who comment at Ace’s blog. Yeah and Ace too… shame on you all for being such… such… men!

I am sick and fucking tired of women bitching about being objectified… really I am. GROW THE FUCK UP.

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wow, I really probably shouldn’t wade into this, but what the hell. Nobody reads me anymore anyway and it isn’t like I am going to cry if I suddenly become the root of all evil.

That said… Grow the hell up, ladies. I started scanning when a few of you started acting like 14 year old girls.

What is it you all want from men? Put down Naomi’s Beauty Myth, she is a hysterical bitch and you really do not want to be like her.

It is amazing to me some of you gals can start these really well thought out comments and then devolve into basically a temper tantrum about the way men talk about women.

If I didn’t know you were mostly conservative bloggers I would swear I had stumbled onto some god forsaken man hating leftist granola fest. Having read all of this the only thing that seems to separate your comments from the Granola Brigade is the greater likelihood you actually have shaved pits and legs (though I am sure not a Brazilian wax, that would be degrading).

Well I have to call bullshit when I see it, sorry.

Women seem to long for a nirvana where we are all judged on our intelligence and our wit alone, yeah right. Looks mean nothing, right ladies? We do not sit around with our friends and talk about things just as off color as the guys in Ace’s comments. I am sure you would all love your husbands just as much if they had bad teeth, smelled like pee, and needed to lose 100 pounds just as long as they respected you and lived up to their responsibilities. Right? Lie to somebody else, sweeties.

Women get a thrill by being objectified by men. They do not get a thrill from men objectifying someone else, especially someone they feel intellectually superior to and even more so if they feel she is prettier.

Someone mentioned women being vain under pressure from these horrible male imposed stereotypes. Most women do not have plastic surgery for their men. They do not get botox for their men. They do not work out obsessively for their men. They do it for other women. American women dress for each other. They have to look better than the other women in The Pack. If women truly dressed for men they would spend more money on their bras and panties than their slacks and blouses.

The whole feminist bs is tired. “Please don’t objectify me, I am a strong thinking woman.” Yeah, well you can all have those really sensitive and politically correct men. I prefer mine men with their balls between their legs, not in a jar.

This is why I work in the Tech sector and for the Military. I rarely have to work with more than one other woman. Get more than two or three together and it becomes something ugly.

I am smart, witty, have a career, have four daughters, and I have a full on Alpha male husband who loves to look at my ass and thinks I am the sexiest thing alive. Thank God he doesn’t think I am a high maintenance bitch with a chip on my shoulder who makes him prove constantly that he considers me his mental/physical/and sexual equal.

Women who get their panties all in a knot over this stuff fundamentally do not understand men. They are simple creatures. Keep them well fed, don’t nag them, and keep their balls empty. They will love you forever.

They may objectify Monica Belucci, but you know what, that has nothing to do with how they feel about their wives and girlfriends. They are visual creatures who do not understand our passive aggressive bullshit.

I am rambling here because it is late and I work for a living. I guess I just wanted to have a female POV in comments that isn’t frothing at the mouth about men being men. I wish I would have found this earlier when I was still coherent and not running on purely disgust.

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McCain being a POW is overrated…

From the stage, the 73-year-old seemed to denigrate the importance of John McCain’s time as a prisoner of war in Vietnam. In an interview with the Observer afterward, she suggested that Barack Obama benefits—and Clinton suffers—because Americans view racism more seriously than sexism.

“Suppose John McCain had been Joan McCain and Joan McCain had got captured, shot down and been a POW for eight years. [The media would ask], ‘What did you do wrong to get captured? What terrible things did you do while you were there as a captive for eight years?’” Steinem said, to laughter from the audience.

McCain was, in fact, a prisoner of war for around five-and-a-half years, during which time he was tortured repeatedly. Referring to his time in captivity, Steinem said with bewilderment, “I mean, hello? This is supposed to be a qualification to be president? I don’t think so.”

I mean what do you even say to this?  Maybe…

Well, not to sound like a racist, but it has a bit more to do with being qualified for president than say uhm… BEING BLACK!   How about having more to do with being president than uhm… HAVING OVARIES!  Both of which seem to be the main qualification for president the two libs have to offer us.

What a cunt.  I honestly thought this gal was dead, sort of like everyone thinks Abe Vigoda is dead.

Where did the illustrious Ms. Steinham say these delightful little words?  Where else, Austin.  The only safe place in Texas to say such shit.  This is just another reason for me to form the coalition to wall off this festering boil on my beloved state and let them rot in their own fucking sense of entitlement and specialness.  They can all be victims together!

Honestly I could go on a tirade here about feminism and black power but I am tired of stating the obvious about both bullshit movements.   Feminism as well as the civil rights movement overstepped their fucking legitimacy to me the minute they pushed their bullshit agenda’s past equal right under the law and into special status because of the color of their skin and the fact they have a fucking uterus.

Fucking political correctness, it will be the end of us all.  Well, not us in Texas… we are backward that way, you know we still love America, our women are mouthy in a good way, and we still work for a living here.